Neither one, thank you.

I might be able to handle "my girl," but even that would be pushing it.

My dad calls me and my sisters Joe (yes all three of us.) We never had schmoopy nicknames as kids like pumpkin or angel. It was knothead or Joe. And I can't really see myself wanting a sappy endearment now. I really liked Logan on Gilmore Girls calling Rory, Ace. Now that is romantic in my mind.