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the Observer

Thanks for taking the test !

you chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE.


"I need to understand the world"



Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical,
and insightful.



How to Get Along with Me




  • Be independent, not clingy.


  • Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.


  • I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.


  • Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that
    I am feeling uncomfortable.


  • Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your
    sincerity.


  • If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because
    it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.


  • don't come on like a bulldozer.


  • Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music,
    overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.



What I Like About Being a Five




  • standing back and viewing life objectively


  • coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects


  • my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced
    by social pressure


  • not being caught up in material possessions and status


  • being calm in a crisis



What's Hard About Being a Five




  • being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world


  • feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all


  • being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be


  • watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or
    technical skill, do better professionally



Fives as Children Often




  • spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on


  • have a few special friends rather than many


  • are very bright and curious and do well in school


  • have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers


  • watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information


  • assume a poker face in order not to look afraid


  • are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict


  • feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected



Fives as Parents





  • are often kind, perceptive, and devoted


  • are sometimes authoritarian and demanding


  • may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate


  • may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions





Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

Harper
SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages




You liked the test? so please don't forget to RATE it...

but remember! it had only two questions!!! ;-)


you wanna know MORE?

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...even more you'll find in Google


or do you prefer to









You are not completely happy with the result?!

You chose BZ


Would you rather have chosen:

  • AZ (THREE)
  • CZ (ONE)
  • BX (NINE)
  • BY (FOUR)













  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 99% on ABC
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 99% on XYZ




    Link: The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the The Dating Persona Test



    There's that, but I think I'm an even split between five and four:




    the Romantic

    Thanks for taking the test !

    you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR.


    "I am unique"



    Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.



    How to Get Along with Me



    • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.

    • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value
      myself.

    • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.

    • Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy,
      I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.

    • Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!


    What I Like About Being a Four


    • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep
      level

    • my ability to establish warm connections with people

    • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life

    • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor

    • being unique and being seen as unique by others

    • having aesthetic sensibilities

    • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me




    What's Hard About Being a Four


    • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair

    • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

    • feeling guilty when I disappoint people

    • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me

    • expecting too much from myself and life

    • fearing being abandoned


    • obsessing over resentments

    • longing for what I don't have



    Fours as Children Often


    • have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in
      original game
      s

    • are very sensitive

    • feel that they don't fit in

    • believe they are missing something that other people have


    • attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.

    • become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood

    • feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents'
      divorce)



    Fours as Parents


    • help their children become who they really are

    • support their children's creativity and originality

    • are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings


    • are sometimes overly critical or overly protective

    • are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed



    Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

    The Enneagram Made Easy

    Discover the 9 Types of People

    Harper
    SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages




    You liked the test? so please don't forget to RATE it...

    but remember! it had only two questions!!! ;-)


    you wanna know MORE?

    so check out, what Wikipedia says about your type...



    ...even more you'll find in Google


    or do you prefer to









    You are not completely happy with the result?!

    You chose BY


    Would you rather have chosen:

  • AY (EIGHT)
  • CY (SIX)
  • BX (NINE)
  • BZ (FIVE)













  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 99% on ABC
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 99% on XYZ




    Link: The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on OkCupid, home of the The Dating Persona Test

    Date: 2006-10-12 09:02 pm (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com
    But what if I'm a bad influence?

    Date: 2006-10-12 09:49 pm (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] averygoodun.livejournal.com
    Ah, well, if that's the case, I've placed the blame on you. ;-)

    Date: 2006-10-13 03:43 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] zalena.livejournal.com
    I'm a 4 "romantic." I could also be a questioner, but that's when I'm compensating.

    Date: 2006-10-13 01:39 pm (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] muggle-prof.livejournal.com
    I think 5 pretty much sums me up;

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